The Christmas season is a special time of the year. This season is filled with so many wonderful things: lights, decorations, special songs, and time spent with friends and family. Another part of Christmas is gifts. I thought about putting that in the wonderful section of this season, but sometimes gifts can be one of the biggest headaches of this season. How many times have you found yourself banging your head against a wall trying to figure out that perfect gift for someone? You just want to get them an Amazon or Visa gift card, but then you realize that you might come across as copping out and not putting any real thought into it.

The truth is that this season is about the greatest gift that was ever given. It didn’t come from some warehouse or website. It wasn’t delivered to us by some guy in a brown suit or GrubHub. The greatest gift came from God as He sent His one and only Son into this world to bring to us the gifts of Advent: hope, joy, peace, and love.

In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul reminds us that…

¹³ So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13 ESV

Love is truly the greatest gift of all. As we celebrate the Christmas season, we celebrate the love of God coming to us in a tangible way. As we look at Matthew’s account of the first Christmas, I want to show you a couple of things about the love of God that came to us that first Christmas.

‌The love of God comes to us

As Matthew begins sharing about the first Christmas, he points out the truth that the love of God came to us in the person of Jesus Christ.

¹⁸ Now the birth of Jesus Christ took place in this way. When his mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit.
Matthew 1:18 ESV

The virgin birth is an important part of the story. The fact that Mary was pregnant is truly a miracle in itself. This was a sign that this baby was no ordinary baby. This child in Mary’s womb was the Son of God.

The apostle, John, shares with us that God is love. The baby that was growing in Mary’s womb in this verse was in fact love coming to us. God didn’t just write a message in a sunset that says He loves us. God came to us… to where we are — in the muck and mire of our situations — to show us that He cares for us and has not abandoned us.

We celebrate during this season as we realize that through Jesus, love came to us.

The love of God transforms us

While Matthew starts his first Christmas account with the wonderful news of God coming to us, in verse 19, Matthew shows that it was a difficult event in the moment.

¹⁹ And her husband Joseph, being a just man and unwilling to put her to shame, resolved to divorce her quietly.
Matthew 1:19 ESV

Mary was betrothed to Joseph, and they were looking forward to a wonderful life together. I’m sure they were dreaming about their future together. But when Joseph realized Mary was pregnant and the child was not his, he didn’t understand what was going on. What we see in verse 19 is how the work of God’s love on a person’s heart can transform them.

Joseph thought that Mary had been unfaithful to him. The Jewish law gave Joseph every right to humiliate Mary. A normal person might have done this, but Joseph was not a normal person. The Bible doesn’t say a lot about Joseph, but what it does points to the fact that he loved and walked in faithfulness to God. Because of Joseph’s relationship with God, God’s love transformed Joseph from being one who wants to get even to being one who looks out for one whom he thought had betrayed him.

The love of God transforms a person’s heart, words, and actions. When we experience and walk in the love of God on a consistent basis, it transforms us to live in a way that reflects God. That transformation doesn’t come by any other means.

The love of God teaches us

While Joseph was making plans in his mind to gracefully part ways with Mary, God sent an angel to him in a dream to teach Joseph the truth about what was happening. God cared deeply for this young couple. God didn’t want there to be a split or shame or anything like that. In verses 20-21, God sends a message which teaches Joseph the truth of the situation.

²⁰ But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. ²¹ She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.”
Matthew 1:20–21 ESV

The very first temptation that a human being experienced was when Eve was tempted to doubt God’s goodness and think He was holding out on humans. God’s love for us proves that to be a complete falsehood. God’s word is truth, and He has shared His truth with us. We may think that we know what our situation is all about, but we would do well to seek the truth from God if we want a better understanding.

God shares with Joseph that Mary had not been unfaithful to him. The baby she was carrying in her womb was a gift from God placed there by the Holy Spirit. Notice that the angel said that Mary would bear the son, but Joseph would name the baby Jesus. This indicates that God desired Joseph to continue with plans to take Mary as his bride and help raise this child.

The love of God saves us

In verses 21-23, Matthew shares with us that the love of God comes to save us.

²¹ She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.” ²² All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet: ²³ “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means, God with us).
Matthew 1:21–23 ESV

The angel shares that what Joseph is experiencing at this moment is the fulfillment of God’s promise to send a Savior. The prophet Isaiah foretold how the Messiah would come about 700 years before it happened. It wasn’t the way or when most people expected, but God is true to His word and always comes through at the perfect moment.

Jesus’ coming that first Christmas was the foundation that John 3:16-17 stands on. These verses are well-known by many because they share that God’s coming to us for the first time was not about judgment as much as His love toward us.

¹⁶ “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. ¹⁷ For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
John 3:16–17 ESV

A person is saved from their sins by turning from their sins and trusting in Jesus Christ. This work of God’s grace brings eternal life to any person who trusts in and follows Him.

The love of God empowers us

In Matthew 1:24-25, we see Joseph awakening and responding to what God had shown him.

²⁴ When Joseph woke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him: he took his wife, ²⁵ but knew her not until she had given birth to a son. And he called his name Jesus.
Matthew 1:24–25 ESV

Joseph had to make a decision. He could go with what he originally thought about his situation, or he could listen to God’s word and walk in obedience. Because Joseph had experienced the love of God, he was also empowered to walk in obedience to what God wanted. There were going to be people who whispered about him and his bride. There were going to be people who made fun of him for being so foolish to believe that Mary was carrying the Messiah.

There are times in our lives when the decision to walk in obedience to God’s ways is not easy. There are times when walking in obedience to what God wants is not seen as popular or even logical at times. Because the love of God has come to us, we have been given the empowerment to live as God desires when we experience His love.

‌Conclusion

As Matthew shows us in his account of the first Christmas, it was a time when God’s love came to us in a special way. God’s love came to us in the person of Jesus Christ. He came to make the only way for our sins to be forgiven and for us to be reunited with God.

Gifts are definitely on people’s minds in this season and rightfully so. The first Christmas brought us the greatest gift of all — the love of God. The interesting thing about a gift is that it doesn’t become yours until you actually receive it. Have you received the gift of God’s love through Jesus by confessing and turning from your sins to Him by faith? I would encourage you to do that today if you haven’t. It is truly the greatest Christmas present ever.

Christmas comes with high expectations. We want everything to be just perfect, don’t we? We have pictures in our minds of children playing, church choirs singing, people smiling and getting along. But how often does it happen that way? It is supposed to be “the most wonderful time of the year”, but for many it is very difficult because something has interrupted. Those interruptions sometimes come in the form of sickness, death, loneliness, loss of a job, or arguments.

We look to the Christmas season to be a time of perfect peace, harmony, and joy. That is what all the signs we see and songs that we hear say.

When we look at the first Christmas, the scene can be one that is seen as somewhat messy. There were some interruptions that caused a great deal of frustration among what should have been a time of great joy.

READ MATTHEW 1:18-25

Interruptions can happen at any time. Consider Joseph and Mary. They were engaged to be married. Like Christmas, engagement is supposed to be a wonderful time. There were dreams of this young couple building a life together.

It was during their engagement that an angel appeared to Mary and told her that she would give birth to the Son of God. Good news, right? Actually, this would be very interruptive. How would she explain this situation to Joseph? Would Joseph believe her? Would he be willing to take the responsibility of raising a child that was not his? This was definitely not in the plans, and yet, she accepted it.

If we are not careful, our response to an interruption in life can send us down a wrong path. We can jump to conclusions and try to fix it in our own ways.

Joseph almost went down that wrong path. When he discovered Mary’s pregnancy, he was heartbroken. Joesph loved Mary with all his heart, but he couldn’t be with her. Joseph knew that this child was not his. Joseph could have had Mary put to death for infidelity, but chose to not embarrass her. Joseph planned in his heart to divorce Mary quietly, but this would have been a mistake.

Often, an interruption brings on a knee-jerk reaction. We make decisions that we would not make if we were better informed. We must be careful that when we face “an interruption” in this life, we don’t just react according to our own fears and feelings.

The key to handling any interruption is to get God’s take on it. Thankfully, God rescued Joseph from his error. I can imagine Joseph, having learned of Mary’s situation, tossing and turning in bed, trying to decide what to do. Finally, he decides. He will divorce her privately. But while he is sleeping an angel of the Lord appears to him in a dream and says,

²⁰ But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. ²¹ She will bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save his people from their sins.”
Matthew 1:20:21 (ESV)

Joseph awoke with a changed mind. He would not divorce Mary. He would take her as his wife and help raise this miraculous child. He had gotten God’s perspective of his interruption.

When you encounter an interruption, don’t react according to your own feelings and thoughts. Seek God’s direction. Remember Proverbs 3:5-6.

⁵ Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. ⁶ In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)

Three Words to Remember When You Face An Interruption

Prayer

When an interruption comes into life and seems to mess everything up, stop and take time to pray.

Prayer is one of the most powerful gifts that we have been given by God. Sadly, too many people see prayer as a last resort. Rather, it should be a first priority.

Through prayer, we are able to go straight to God. We do not have to sit on hold in prayer. When we open our hearts and speak to God, He hears us at that very moment. Even better, God will speak to our hearts through prayer.

³ Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known.
Jeremiah 33:3 (ESV)

When “interruptions” arise in our lives, we should go to God in prayer and ask for wisdom concerning the situation – What is going on? We should ask for help – Help me to understand what You are up to with this, LORD.

God will help us through times of prayer just like He helped Joseph with what seemed to be a devastating interruption.

Perspective

The second word for times of interruptions is perspective. This is closely linked to the first word – prayer. We should allow God to put the “interruption” in its proper perspective.

What we may see as something that is “end-of-the-world” may not actually be. In the grand scope of things, is what is going on really as bad as we may think it is?

There may be some interruptions that are very significant. I do not want to make light of that. But in the moment, some molehills seem to be mountains.

It is important to allow God to re-center us and put things in their proper perspective. This is what happened with Joseph in our text. Instead of just going forward with what he thought was best, Joseph allowed God to show him the truth. This gave Joseph clear vision to follow God’s perfect plan even when it looked crazy to everyone else.

Providence

The third word for us during times of interruptions in life is providence. Providence is the continuing and often unseen activity of God in sustaining his universe, providing for the needs of every creature, and preparing for the completion of his eternal purposes.

This is closely tied to another attribute of God: His sovereignty. God is in complete control. There is nothing that can happen without God first knowing it and allowing it.

As we come to God in prayer and allow Him to set the proper perspective for us, it grows within us a trust in Him that He’s got this. While it may seem like everything is out of control in the moment, God is still on the throne and not taken by surprise.

We may not like the “interruption” that has come up, but could God be trying to point out something to us with this very interruption? Is there something that we were missing completely, and our ever-loving God is trying to make us aware of it?

When you truly trust in God, you rest in the fact that He is in control and will work every single thing for the good of those who love Him and for His glory (Romans 8:28).

Interruptions are not fun all the time, but they can redirect our lives in a positive manner. This was true for Joseph and Mary. Their plans were interrupted, but what an interruption! Can you imagine the privilege of being the human parents of the Son of God? The direction their future took was not what they had planned, but it was so much better.

Have you considered that God could do that in your life? God may take an interruption – as messy as it seems – and use it to set your life on a new and better path.

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Whatever interruption you might be facing, look at it in a different light. Ask, “God, are you using this to do something great in my life?” Allow Him to give you the proper perspective. Let your trust in His providence grow more than ever before.

12.26.2023

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